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What this is. A private pickleball forum for men who see the game as a means to a greater end: the development of the man himself, in mind, body, and soul. The mind, a good attitude and moral character. The body, trained the way it was designed to develop. The soul, competing in a way that honors God rather than the self. Everyone who joins agrees to pursue that, and to help the men and boys around him do the same. If you're looking for gear debates, tour gossip, or somewhere to complain about your rating, this isn't that room.
The foundation. This community is built on the historic Christian moral framework, because that framework is the answer to the secularism that has hollowed out modern sport. Denominational differences exist, but that kind of debate doesn't belong here. You don't have to share the faith. You do have to respect the foundation, live by the values below, and not promote positions that cut against it. This is not a liberal or egalitarian framework, and this forum treats masculinity, including healthy aggression in sport, as a virtue rather than a problem. A man who lives by the values honors the standard whether or not he professes the faith.
The values.
Mind. We make honest calls. We respect our partners in the worst of times, and our opponents always. We congratulate an opponent's good point instead of dwelling on our own error. We keep a level head regardless of outcome, and we train the mind to stay calm under pressure so that sound strategic decisions get made. We aspire to excellence in mental strength.
Body. We honor the body by training movement that aligns with God's original design: the developmental process every infant grows through. That is the foundation for graceful, athletic, optimal movement, so we train it both on and off court.
Soul. This one is delicate, because the gate here is not Christian faith. But we hold that a nourished soul requires a clear conscience, and that sound behavior is paramount. A man without faith can still be faithful to his wife, and that is good in God's eyes. For the man with faith, we live in a continual cycle of examining and correcting our conduct, tweaking our behavior over the course of the journey so that it honors God more over time.
Training and your body. Everything here is education, not medical care. I'm a coach, not your physician. Nothing in this forum diagnoses, treats, or replaces a doctor or physical therapist. Training carries risk of injury, and you accept that risk when you act on anything you read here. If something hurts, see someone qualified. If you have a condition, clear it with your doctor first.
How we treat each other. Straight talk, goodwill, honesty, no gossip. We tell each other the truth, even when it's hard to hear, because that's how men improve. No threats, no intimidation, no personal attacks, and of course nothing outside the law. Don't make disparaging claims about named individuals or organizations. Referencing professional players and public figures in the sport is fine, that's normal pickleball talk. What's out is anything defamatory, legally risky, or identifying about a private individual. Never post anyone's private information.
Good faith. One account per man. No impersonation. What other men post here isn't yours to copy, screenshot, or repeat outside this forum. Save my library material for your own use if it helps you, but it stays yours, not something to redistribute. Don't solicit other men here, in threads or in messages. Answer what's asked and let your profile speak for itself.
Speech. No blasphemy, no unclean speech. We can disagree hard and say difficult things, but the point is always to build men up, not to tear them down. Remember there are boys in here alongside their fathers, so keep the discourse God-honoring. If you're wondering whether something crosses the line, the hesitation is your answer.
What you post. By posting here you give me permission to keep, display, and edit your posts within the forum. Threads stay up and stay searchable, because the value of this place compounds: the question you asked in March is the answer another man finds in October. If you leave, what you wrote stays for that reason. What's said here stays here, and that binds me too. If I ever want to use something you wrote in material published outside the forum, I'll ask you first, whether or not your name is on it.
The wiki. Separate from the threads, and built deliberately. Coaches and experts can write or expand an entry, and your name goes on what you contribute. Anything you add there is yours to be credited for and mine to maintain as part of the wiki.
Responsibility. What you post is your own. I don't vet it and I'm not answerable for it. Post something unlawful and you own the consequences.
Fathers and sons. Your membership covers your sons under 18. For boys under 13, you do the posting on their behalf; they don't type into the forum. From 13 they can post on your account with you present, never on their own. No solo accounts for minors, no exceptions. If your son is here, it's because his dad is here.
My hours. This is an asynchronous forum, and that includes me. Post whenever you like. I read and reply through the week, not on weekends or public holidays. I'll be heavily involved, especially early on, since the forum is an extension of my philosophy and you'll want to hear from me. As it grows, more members will be ready to answer too.
Moderation. Anything that becomes a distraction to the mission, I'll deal with directly. Moderation calls are mine, and they aren't up for debate in the forum. If you think I got one wrong, message me directly. I keep the right to remove a member at my discretion. Membership fees aren't refundable. If something unusual happens, I'll deal with it case by case. Stay within the rules and the spirit of what we're building, and you'll have no trouble here.
This is the waitlist charter and it's a living document. Agreeing to it is not a membership agreement. The full charter and the Terms of Service apply at membership checkout, and you'll see both before you enter.

